Wowos Club

Dear Wowos, 

This is a friendly reminder that if you have lost a loved one, please join Wowos Grieving Club. The members there will support you during the challenging times. 

Is there a right time to move on after grieving a partner? Please take a listen to this podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/za/podcast/the-clement-manyathela-show/id1201147442?i=1000654421952. 

Join the grieving club here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/GzRYxIfuvOl8nDheFOqx4H. 

Thank you. 

24 August 2023
 
If you have lost a loved one, are facing health problems, or have been confused and sad lately, please listen to Gary Zukav Message #3 (August 24, 2022). The video is here. Please listen carefully to Gary’s definition of frightened parts vs. Loving parts. 
 
I hope it inspires you. May you reach your Authentic Power. 
 
Thank you for reading. 
 
Warm regards,
Wonga Ntshinga, 
Founder and Director 

25 August 2022 

Good Morning Wowos, 
 
In 1975, Al Jarreau sang the song Aladdin’s Lamp. What is interesting to me is how Al, right at the end of the song, steps off the lyrics and sings: 
 
Jesus, I’ve got the cross, 
I’ve got the cross. 
Oh, my word. The road is hard, but I’ll make it 
 
He then goes back to the lyrics: 
 
Don't you know how Aladdin's
lamp guards the night
Ten thousand candles beam
The silver stream you're
searching for
 
In this world, we are all searching for common ground to live, work and be happy. To some, the search extends to finding love, answers, meaning and truth. As Al sang, the road might be hard, but we will all make it. Have a beautiful day in your search! 

Thank you for reading. 
 
Warm regards,
Wonga Ntshinga, 
Founder and Director 

4 February 2024 

I am resending this one. I have added a recording for you to listen to.

18 August 2022 
 
Good Morning Wowos, 
 
Steve Jobs once wrote, “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your inner voice. Most importantly, you should have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.” 
 
So, Wowos, in the words of English literature professor Henry Van Dyke:  
 
"Time is too slow for those who wait,
too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve,
too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love, time is eternity."
 
Have a great time. Please listen to this recording:

 
Warm regards,
Wonga Ntshinga, 
Founder and Director 
 

11 February 2024 
 
Remember, the earlier you spot a signal, the more time you have to react. Conversely, the higher the risk that those efforts might be wasted versus when the change is upon you, you have no time to act. This is known as time zero. Sustaining change is very hard. 
 
All I am asking you to do is: 
 
1.         Be present and broaden the possibilities. 
2.         Have a discovery-driven mindset.
3.         Hold strong opinions weakly. Paul Saffo once said that. I know you have strong views about certain things, but you need to cross-check those strong opinions.
4.         Adapt to a completely different situation as quickly as possible. The world has changed, so you have to adjust, but change is not easy. 
5.         Switch from growth to a survival strategy. Scott D. Anthony once said, “Very few have a strategy grounded in a clear view of what they expect the future to look like”. Do you know what your future looks like? We have to have the foresight for growth. 
6.         Think positively and make peace with your worst-case scenario. 
 
Darwin surmised those who survive “are not the strongest or the most intelligent, but the most adaptable to change”. 
 
Let me know if you need more information or want to chat or reach out to any Wowos members.

Have a blessed Sunday. 

Warm Wowos regards,
Wonga Ntshinga, 
Wowos Club 
Founder and Director

Please take a listen to this podcast. 

Join the grieving club here.